Choosing the ideal song for the mother-son dance is a vital part of any wedding. It can help create an unforgettable emotional moment for everyone involved.
During wedding planning, some couples opt for classic favorites, while others might lean towards contemporary hits that resonate with their bond. Fournier, who runs a wedding business with his wife, Serena, emphasizes, “If you’re into country music, I won’t suggest a pop song.”
For those with strong mother-son connections, emotional tunes can truly touch the hearts of guests, he notes. Conversely, for less intimate relationships, simpler, more general songs might be appropriate.
“If the groom’s mother selects the song, she may prefer a female artist echoing her feelings about her son. If it’s up to the groom, he might choose something from his viewpoint,” he explains.
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Top Mother-Son Wedding Dance Songs
- “You’ll Be in My Heart” by Phil Collins
- “Don’t Blink” by Kenny Chesney
- “My Wish” by Rascal Flatts
- “Boy” by Lee Brice
- “Humble and Kind” by Tim McGraw
- “I Hope You Dance” by Lee Ann Womack
- “You Raise Me Up” by Josh Groban
- “Her Little Man” by Jami Grooms
- “Mother” by Michael Bublé
- “Never Alone” by Jim Brickman featuring Lady A
Unique Choices for Mother-Son Dances
Fournier adds, “We often focus on the bride being given away, but we shouldn’t overlook that a mother is giving her son away too.”
He believes the mother-son dance deserves more attention during wedding ceremonies.
For those seeking something different, here are some unique suggestions:
- “Hit the Road Jack” by Ray Charles
- “Mama” by Spice Girls
- “Mama Tried” by Merle Haggard
- “Just the Two of Us” by Will Smith
- “I’ll Be There” by the Jackson 5
- “Mom” by Earth, Wind & Fire
- “The Perfect Fan” by Backstreet Boys
- “You Are My Sunshine” by Johnny Cash
- “Dear Mama” by 2Pac
- “Count on Me” by Bruno Mars
Marturello notes, “Typically, the mother of the groom selects the song. I encourage grooms to take their moms out for dinner to choose a song that highlights their unique relationship.”
Expert Picks from a Wedding DJ
Fournier advises not to stress about song length. “Often, people don’t enjoy being under the spotlight for an extended time,” he said.
If a favorite song feels too long, he suggests finding a suitable place for a fade-out with the DJ’s assistance.
Here are ten classic tunes he recommends:
- “In My Life” by the Beatles
- “Wildflowers” by Tom Petty
- “Lean on Me” by Bill Withers
- “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong
- “You’ve Got a Friend” by James Taylor
- “Stand by Me” by Ben E. King
- “Into the Mystic” by Van Morrison
- “Have I Told You Lately (Unplugged Version)” by Rod Stewart
- “Simple Man” by Lynyrd Skynyrd
- “Unforgettable” by Nat King Cole and Natalie Cole
The perfect mother-son dance song can make for a touching moment in a wedding. Whether you go for a beloved classic or a newer favorite, it’s all about capturing that special connection between a groom and his mother.