Who would have thought that simply maintaining eye contact could lead to such surprising results? Well, Kitty Lever from New York City decided to put this to the test.
It’s not always easy to hold eye contact, especially with strangers, but Kitty bravely took on the challenge and documented her experience on TikTok.
In a video posted on 8th May 2024, Kitty attempted to keep eye contact with a man, and the reactions she received were both hilarious and heartwarming. The video garnered 331,500 likes, with viewers sharing funny stories in the comments.
Kitty commented on her TikTok post, revealing that it was the first time she maintained eye contact without flinching, and the outcomes were surprisingly positive.
During the video, while interacting with a man at a fashion event, Kitty held eye contact with him as he complimented her, saying, “I lost myself in your blue eyes like the ocean for a moment.” Her response? A grateful smile and a touch to her face.
It’s interesting to note how impactful eye contact can be in social interactions. Matchmakers have long emphasized its importance in building connections with strangers, as it can help convey sincerity and create a sense of intimacy.
According to London-based matchmaker Ksenia Drobin, not everyone finds it easy to maintain eye contact, especially if they’re out of practice in the dating scene.
Drobin suggests an exercise where couples stare into each other’s eyes for three minutes, revealing that many find it challenging and may look away or laugh out of discomfort.
For those looking to improve their social skills, she recommends practicing eye contact in public settings while appreciating passersby subtly. This can help individuals become more comfortable with making eye contact and connecting with others.
So, next time you interact with someone new, remember the power of eye contact—it might just be the key to unlocking deeper connections.