In today’s world, social etiquette is key to navigating our interactions. However, not all etiquette rules are universally loved. A recent post on Reddit highlighted this, with users discussing etiquette rules they dislike.
On June 11, user u/AirDesk sparked a thread about social rules people disagree with. The post has gained 12,000 comments and 9,100 upvotes, showing widespread dissatisfaction with certain norms.
Politeness and Rudeness
One comment with 14,000 likes expressed frustration with how it’s more acceptable to be rude than to call out rudeness. Responding with kindness can often defuse rude situations without confrontation. It’s essential not to take rudeness personally.
Food Etiquette
A common gripe involves food etiquette, like not taking the last piece of shared food. How many times has good food gone to waste because someone didn’t take it?
Traditionally, leaving food on your plate was polite, but now it’s polite to finish your meal. At upscale restaurants, smaller portions are served to ensure you enjoy it all. Never feel guilty for not finishing; thanking the host suffices.
Offering and Declining Food
Former royal household member Grant Harrold shares food etiquette advice. Hosts should keep offering food, even if initially declined, demonstrating hospitality. They should respect guest dietary needs and decline graciously if necessary.
Arriving Late
Being “fashionably late” was criticized by one user. It’s common in the U.K. and U.S. to arrive slightly after the scheduled time but avoid lying about lateness.
Don’t show up too early to events, as the host may not be ready. Arriving 10-15 minutes late is often considered polite.